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Video #29 | March 29, 2018

In this video I’m going to look at what you need to know if you plan on dating a Thai women. [This video is part one of a multi-part series].

The video will be broken down into 2 sections:

– Dating Thai women can be a dangerous affair.
– 3 types of Thai girl that you need to steer well clear of.

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Welcome to the twenty-ninth video of Bangkok Unmasked! The YouTube channel that helps you get the most out of your visit to Bangkok city! If you’re new here, please consider subscribing! In this video I’m going to look at what you need to know if you plan on dating a Thai women. [This video is part one of a multi-part series].

Let’s get started…

Dating a Thai women can be a dangerous affair

In all honesty, dating Thai women can be a dangerous affair. That said, when things work the experience will change your life forever!

One thing I realized as soon as I arrived in Bangkok is that Thai women are attractive. I wanted to spend some time with these amazing seductive creatures and possibly get myself a Thai girlfriend. After a few years in Thailand I married my now wife. I’m as happy now as I was when we got married 12 years ago!

With this said, a warning right upfront. But be careful to not end up in the arms of the wrong girl! There are 3 types of Thai girl that you need to steer well clear of when dating Thai women.

#1. Thai Bar Girls

I know that this warning will probably fall on deaf ears, but I’d be extremely wary of dating Thai bar girls. Most men who visit Thailand would probably not date prostitutes in their own country. For some reason though this rule gets thrown out of the window by many new visitors to Thailand.

Over the years I have lost count of the horror stories regarding relationships with bar girls. They always go the same way. Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Girl professes undying love. Girl eventually takes the boy for all she can, and leaves him heartbroken. In some cases they’ll literally take it all.

Ultimately, prostitutes want money. They’ll do everything that they can to get it. In a good number of instances girls are taught by family and friends that if they marry a ‘rich’ foreigner life will be much better. Most rural villages have at least one couple where the Thai girl has married a foreigner and she gets a house built for her and her family, a car and plenty of spending money. A quality of life that would be quite out of the question left to her own devices. All the other girls in the village see this, and want a piece of the action.

Asian men are targets too!

One note. I’m not just talking about foreigners from the West. Japanese, Singaporeans and Koreans etc. are all targets as well! These days they’re probably preferred as they have more money and less of a social stigma than White foreigners.

For a lot of Thai bar girls a relationship with a foreigner is not about love. It’s about survival for her and her family. In a good number of cases Thai bar girls already have a child, or children. The reason that they are working at this particular job is to try and pay the bills for her family to bring up the child, or children. Low income factory jobs for example just don’t pay anywhere near enough to comfortably bring up children and support a family. They’re also hard work!

#2. The Semi Professional

The semi-pro girls are easy to miss if you don’t know what to look for. They’re absolutely not bar girls! However, the problem is that they have exactly the same intentions as bar girls.

These girls come from all over Thailand, including Bangkok, and generally work in relatively low-paid jobs. However, they have the latest iPhone and designer clothing/accessories. In a good number of cases they’re office workers.

You’ll find the semi-pros in nightclubs visited by foreigners like; Insanity, Levels, Mixx, GLOW, Shock39, NARZ and Route 66. You’ll also find hoards of them around Khaosan Road and hanging around the 5 star hotel bars. Spasso at Grand Hyatt Erawan Bangkok hotel is a famous spot for picking up semi-pro girls.

Their intention is to find a sponsor or husband.

You may be able to sleep with these girls for ‘free’. In most cases free will end up becoming very expensive over time.

In some cases the semi-pro women will make it clear from the outset that; no money, no honey. As I said, you want to be extremely careful of the ones who are ‘free’.

#3. Ladyboys

Everyone who visits Thailand knows to be wary of ladyboys. As time goes on, it’s getting harder and harder to spot them due to advances in surgical procedures and Transgender Hormone Therapy. Many men have had the shock of their lives when they realize that the cute girl they’re with is not a girl. These days the only way to spot the best ladyboys are; the hands, the voice and the mannerisms.

My Thai brother-in-law is a plastic surgeon. It’s truly amazing what can be done to completely transform a man into a woman in Thailand. Vaginoplasty, Buttock Augmentation, Breast Augmentation, Thyroid Cartilage Reduction, Forehead/Brow Lift, Cheek Augmentation, Chin Augmentation, Rhinoplasty, Blepharoplasty and more. It can all be done in Thailand. And at relatively low cost. Interestingly, there are now procedures to turn a woman into a man offered in Thailand. Phalloplasty, or the construction of a penis, is a thing!

If you think that I’m exaggerating, check out the following pictures and tell me that you could spot the ladyboy after a few too many drinks!

Goodbye for now. Part two of dating Thai women is coming soon…

Anyway…That’s it for this video. I hope that helps answer some of your questions on dating Thai women. Look out for part two which should be posted in about a week or so. In part two I’ll look at the types of Thai girl that you should date and where to find them. Hint: Not in a go-go bar!

For all you techies out there, this video was shot on a Samsung Galaxy S8 Plus, and edited using HitFilm Express.

Finally, please don’t forget to subscribe to this channel through the button below! Also, if you have suggestions for other types of Thai girl that should be avoided when dating Thai women, I’d like to hear them in the comments section. Other than Thai Bar Girls, The Semi Professional and Ladyboys. Or maybe you completely disagree with everything that I have said!

Thank you very much for watching. I’ll see you next week. Goodbye.


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