Video #30 | April 5, 2018
In this video I’m going to continue the subject of how to date a Thai woman. [This video is part two of a multi-part series]. Click on the following link to check out part 1 of; Dating Thai women: Watch this video before you date a Thai woman!
The video will be broken down into 2 sections:
– 3 categories of women that you should look for.
– How do you find a decent Thai girl?
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Welcome to the thirtieth video of Bangkok Unmasked! The YouTube channel that helps you get the most out of your visit to Bangkok city! If you’re new here, please consider subscribing! In this video I’m going to continue the subject of how to date a Thai woman. We’re going to look at the types of Thai girl that you should date and where to find them. [This video is part two of a multi-part series].
Let’s get started…
In the previous video I discussed the types of Thai women that you should try to avoid having a serious relationship with. Now I’m going to discuss the types of Thai women that can make a perfect lover, partner or even wife.
I’d say that there are really 3 categories of women that you should look for.
#1. The Family-Oriented ‘Low-Society’ Girl
Just because a woman doesn’t come from money, this doesn’t mean that she should be overlooked. Many of these girls are genuine, have strong family values and are willing to truly support a man who takes care of them. Of course they’ll expect you to have some money, but this doesn’t mean serious wealth. Even an English teacher’s salary should be enough i.e. THB40,000-THB50,000+ per month. They’ll be looking for evidence of some money, as they know full well how hard it is to raise a family without money!
If you can speak some basic Thai, and enjoy the company of a traditional Thai girl, this type of girl is a solid choice if you’re looking to date a Thai woman!
#2. The Educated Middle Class University Girl
Personally if I was to date a Thai woman, this type of girl is my preferred choice. This is the category of girl which I married, and it was a good decision. One of the benefits of this type of girl is that you won’t necessarily have to support them financially as they are quite capable of supporting themselves!
This might surprise you but finding a Thai woman who falls into this category is not that hard. Especially when you are looking for her in Bangkok! Honestly, I have lost count of the number of attractive Thai women in their late 20s, 30s and 40s who have a good job, degrees from prestigious universities yet no boyfriend. It really is quite hard to comprehend as so many of these girls are attractive, intelligent and solvent!
Most of this type of girl are open to date foreigners. I have honestly lost count of the number of my wife’s friends and colleagues who have asked if I have any friends that I can introduce them to! Note: They are smart enough to distinguish between creepy sex tourists and normal ‘good guys’.
From my experience, being with such a girl is broadly the same as being with a Western girl. However, binge drinking and partying hard will probably not be on her to do list. She’ll likely take a very dim view of this type of behavior.
#3. The ‘High-Society’ Girl
Many of these girls are party girls. Big time. That said, there are some who are not. You may be able to fit into their families. You may not. It really depends a lot on your background, and how you behave.
For what it’s worth on your quest to date a Thai woman, I wouldn’t rule this type of girl out. I wouldn’t though hold your breath either. They will be extremely hard work, and the odds of you being accepted by their family is not going to be great. A lot of the girls from the famous families will effectively have arranged marriages to ‘acceptable’ men from other prominent families.
It’s not impossible though, and I know a number of guys who have married high-society, or ‘hi-so’, girls. These days it’s somewhat easier than in the past as there are a number of such unions that have worked and gained acceptance.
So…How do you find a decent Thai girl?
This is the million dollar question! It’s actually easier than you might imagine. Especially if you have some ‘game’.
First off, find a girl who can speak English! This is kind of obvious, but if she can’t speak English at a basic level it’s going to make things a lot more complicated. And probably more effort that it’s worth.
If I was to go hunting for girls, I would go to some of the following places.
Department stores like:
Around the top tier universities which have huge numbers of pretty girls that tick all the boxes:
- Chulalongkorn University
- Thammasat University
- Bangkok University
- University of the Thai Chamber of Commerce
Or possibly places like:
- Lumphini Park
- Any decent upscale gym
Starting the ball rolling…
Honestly, striking up a conversation is pretty easy as most Thai girls who can speak English are happy to talk with foreigners. Just open with; “Excuse me, do you speak English?”, and this is often enough to get a conversation going. If you’re in a department store you might ask if she can help you choose something to buy — you need her opinion on a shirt for example. Women seem to love it when you ask their opinion on things. Maybe go with something like; “You have a stylish look that I really like. I need to get a shirt for a meeting and I could really use your opinion on what looks good on me”. After a bit of time together you can suggest a meal to say thank you, and things could snowball from their. I’m not the king of game, but speaking with Thai girls is easy. If I can do it, you certainly can!
There’s also online dating. I have no experience of this as I have been married the past 12 years. Friend’s of mine who have used the sites like Thai Cupid for example tell me that it is like shooting fish in a barrel, if you have any game.
Goodbye for now. Part three of how to date a Thai woman is coming soon…
Anyway…That’s it for this video. I hope that helps answer some of your questions on how to date a Thai women. Look out for part three which should be posted in about a week or so. In part three I’ll look at 8 tips for dating Thai girls, and red flags to look for when you’re on a date.
For all you techies out there, this video was shot on a Samsung Galaxy S8 Plus, and edited using HitFilm Express.
Finally, please don’t forget to subscribe to this channel through the button below! Also, I’d like to hear from you which of the three types of Thai girl you prefer. Please tell me in the comments section. Is it; The Family-Oriented ‘Low-Society’ Girl, The Educated Middle Class University Girl or The ‘High-Society’ Girl? Do let me know!
Thank you very much for watching. I’ll see you next week. Goodbye.